Self confidence means confidence and trust in the own person, our personality, talents, qualities and capabilities.
The awareness about our own characteristics, our qualities, more knowledge about ourselves leads to what we all
want : self confidence.

It is the awareness what makes us to an individual, what makes our personality and in what we are different from
others. Personal success comes from the difference.

We all have capabilities and qualities which make us to an individual, the only unique one in the world. We already live
many of these qualities, however unconsciously, because we take it for granted. If we are more aware about these
qualities, they become a higher quality. Many people do not know their individual qualities or talent, because they never
had the opportunity to live it, external circumstances prevent it, or because they do not dare to live and develop it.

What ever we do with fun and happiness, we live our qualities. Fun shows the general direction. We are always
searching for opportunities in order to live our qualities, in the professional and personal area, in hobby or sport. By
discovering our qualities, the hidden potential becomes unlocked which leads to self realization. This can happen in
small situations or actions, which seem not to be important for the first moment.

During our life we develop our individual strategies for success. It is a natural process, made by own experiences.
We try out what helps us. This happens unconsciously and we use these successful strategies in different situations
and life areas. We do not give any attention to it, because for us it is normal, a habit, we do not think about it, however,
it works. If we identify these strategies which we use in every days situations, they become a higher quality and we
can apply or use them in other areas of life. This is our concept for success.


The miracle question (by Steve de Shazer)

Imagine, during the night, while you are sleeping, a miracle happens. You get the self confidence you want. In the
next morning you wake up and you are self confident. However, you do not know that the miracle happened, because
you were sleeping. Anyway it happened.